I will keep this light and funny, however traveling with Two Girls is no picnic. We drove, yes drove, from Chandler, AZ to Durango, CO last week…with both girls. We had hoped that Hailey had outgrown the lack of desire to sit in her car seat, but nope, not yet. They each had their own DVD player and Paige did great, except for the fact that she always wanted to watch what Hailey was watching. The both suck on pacifiers, but continuously “loose” them (most likely THROW them). And they both get hungry. So despite my desire this trip to not spend it in the backseat, I instead spent it backward in the front seat changing DVDs, scrounging for pacifiers, and looking for and feeding snacks. We stopped at a fast food playground and for food, but seriously, do you think my two children would eat? No way! This was a wasted hour stop for sure, because, I still had to be turned around in my seat trying to feed them something for the next 4 hours. Because by then they were “fussy”, yeah, we’ll use that word, from lack of food. They did not sleep one wink the entire trip. We left at 12 noon (really 11am, but had to pick up Paige from school first) and arrived at 8:30pm. Yes, EIGHT AND ONE HALF HOURS, in the car, with both girls.
It was wonderful to finally arrive at Brian’s folk’s home and to see everyone. We let the girls say hi but quickly put them in the tub and to bed. As we needed a BREAK and to RELAX. The week was nice in that we got to spend time with family and the girls got to see everyone. Paige loves her “family” as she refers to everyone. They each got to share special moments with Granny & Papa which is the whole reason for the trip. There were some drawbacks in that the river was too high to play in at their house so that really messed up my planned activities for them every day. But we improvised with an inflatable pool and a walk up the river for some play time. We also had a busy Independence Day with tons of festivities to do in the town of Durango.
The trip home might have been worse than the trip there. Hailey cried nonstop from Gallop, NM to Flagstaff, AZ. Brain had reclined their car seats for this trip. We thought for sure it would help them to sleep better. We discovered that in this position, Hailey cannot poop. Hence she cried for 3 hours. When we got out of the car and she was standing, she finally was able to go. Poor thing. So frustrating for a mom when you don’t know what is wrong and you try everything, but still the crying. I didn’t even think of pooping! Paige however, managed to sleep the entire three hours with Hailey crying next to her. Man, to be almost 3 years old again! We made it home and it was wonderful for everyone to sleep in their OWN beds and OWN rooms.
So, yes, traveling to relative’s for visits important and we will continue to do it. However, we are experienced to know that car rides of this length are no fun for anyone. We may just spend our accumulated miles for the next trip and fly. 3 hours from door to door with no driving and some flight attendant service sounds perfect.