I'm going to admit it. I'm a
MTV Teen Mom watcher or viewer. I started watching this particular bunch when they were on the show
16 and Pregnant when I was pregnant with Paige. Yes, it's been four years. I remember thinking how lucky I was to be settled, have a husband who wanted Paige as much as I did, both of us were employed, educated, the list went on. It's been 4 years since I started watching this group of girls, who are now women and mothers. Each still struggles emotionally, financially, with relationships, making decisions of parenthood, and yes, this list too goes on. They have all tried to make the best of their situations, but at this young age it must be incredibly difficult to do it all.
The message that I got from this series is that teen pregnancy should be avoided at all costs. The way their lives are being lead is not one that I would have wanted to follow. It looks just plain hard. The one couple that has stayed together and been able to make the most of their situation is the one who chose adoption for their child. But they too, still struggle with their incredibly brave and mature decision.
I know our girls will face the pressure of sex sooner than Brian and I ever want them to. I hope that there are more tools or shows like this that they can watch to help them in making their decisions with our influence and guidance of course.
I wish only the best for the parents on this show and for their children.